The most touching appearance in marriage is that two people can not only stand side by side against the storms of life, but also play like children in the trivial daily life. The “games” between couples are never childish pastimes, but the best preservative for feelings.
These games do not require complex rules. Sometimes it is just a “pillow fight” before going to bed, in the playful pushing and shoving, all the troubles of the day are thrown away; sometimes it is a “role-play” on weekends, he plays a clumsy repairman, she pretends to be a picky customer, laughing until tears flow in the exaggerated dialogue, but reading each other’s tenderness when their eyes meet. It can even be some interactions with small challenges, such as agreeing that whoever finishes the housework first can get a “privilege” – maybe letting the other person massage themselves, or deciding where to go on a date on weekends. In the small competition, there is care for each other.
The core of couple games is to create a stress-free space. In this space, you don’t have to play the role of a mature adult, don’t have to worry about the trivialities of life, just need to fully engage in the interaction with each other. When two people laugh heartily because of a simple game, and when the touch of fingertips is playfully frivolous, the neglected intimacy will naturally return.
The outcome of the game is never important. What matters is that in this process, couples can re 感受到 how precious each other’s company is. Those moments of laughing together will be like pearls, stringing together the warmest memories in marriage, making the relationship deeper and deeper in a relaxed and pleasant atmosphere.